(M24) paying a woman to carry my babies

Submitted by throwaway3929295930 t3_z959dt in relationship_advice

Because I really want kids but at the same time I have a huge breeding kink, im probaly never going to find a GF who will carry my babies and I dont think a woman will ever love me but can I just pay a woman to carry my babies?

Because I want my own biological kids and I want to see a woman pregnant with my baby. I can raise kids on my own and afford baby sitters while im at work, I would prefer my kids to have a mother who will be in thier life but I dont think a woman is ever going to like me or find me attractive.

I do have a massive breeding kink but I really want to be a father and its my dream

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Reaper1704 t1_iyf2j46 wrote

It's called surrogacy you really are wording it oddly tho, there's a chance the surrogate might not want you around when she is pregnant so you may not be able to see her with your baby or you can just look around till you find someone who's ok with that.

Defo think about how this will impact your kids life though, especially imagining you get a little girl no doubt you will be a good father but she will need some female influence somewhere, is there anyone close to you who can provide that? A female friend, sister, cousin, or even your mother?

Lastly, make sure you're ready, midnight wake up screams, early days feeding (obviously you can't breastfeed), sick days, and make sure you get in time to properly bond with your child!

Maybe don't give up hope on having a partner, raising children alone is hard, if i may ask, is there a reason you feel nobody would ever like you that way?

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throwaway3929295930 OP t1_iyf37qj wrote

> is there a reason you feel nobody would ever like you that way?

Well im not ugly or short. Im 6ft, I take very good care of my appearance and I have even spent money on it, i work out hard at the gym and im very career driven.

Its just that im introverted and im a bit socially awkward, I also never get any matches on tinder and I only get liked by the women who im not attracted to.

Im not that picky but as a man who is not overweight, doesnt have kids but wants some and who values sex in a relationship I want the same

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Hopz_7 t1_iyf8rlh wrote

This isn’t a kink. Stop calling it that. This is a mental illness and you should be talking to someone about this in therapy.

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nashamagirl99 t1_iyf9yue wrote

Surrogacy is a thing but it costs six figures total. You’re only 24. I’m sure you can find someone who will be willing to have kids the old fashioned way. Maybe start with therapy and work on your self esteem before raising children.

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