He is an inadequate young man . It’s your body and your baby . Do what you know to be in your heart and detach yourself from this individual . He is unable and unprepared to get anywhere near taking his responsibilities seriously and has the cheek to give you advice about what you should do with your own body . I am not often angered but I truly feel for you here . His mum may be sweet but keeping in touch with her will unavoidably bring you into contact with him - and you and your child deserve far better . Perhaps at some point he can make a change - but his actions right now are deplorable .