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Is that guy mentally normal, what about his family history?

Other than that file a restraining order, this guy has lost his marbles!

What a poor excuse of man, he needs to be neutered!

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Op has been posting this under various accounts for days.

Do some research on them! He is definitely quite unstable! You need to know about the family, because you are young and don't deserve to be stuck with a child who might have a 50 percent chance to inherit his/hers father problem!

This is just sick!

Is there a father in the picture? How does his mother behave, before this sick episode????

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Then she has to be straight about it!

He feels resentment towards his father, hence towards himself being a father!

Did you post this using various accounts? Please be straight!

He is an inadequate young man . It’s your body and your baby . Do what you know to be in your heart and detach yourself from this individual . He is unable and unprepared to get anywhere near taking his responsibilities seriously and has the cheek to give you advice about what you should do with your own body . I am not often angered but I truly feel for you here . His mum may be sweet but keeping in touch with her will unavoidably bring you into contact with him - and you and your child deserve far better . Perhaps at some point he can make a change - but his actions right now are deplorable .

How many times are you going with this "story"?

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why do you want to bring a life into this situation? seems selfish.

Save all his messages, don’t respond, and do what you can to prepare for single motherhood in terms of getting on any benefits you qualify for. Single mom with sole custody and no involvement from him beyond child support is the best outcome here btw. Worst outcome he decides he wants visitation or whatnot just to mess with you, which is where the saved messages come in handy.

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