Submitted by DeeSalmon93 t3_z8x244 in relationship_advice
I really need some help here guys! My husband (30M) and I (29F) have tried different things to get him to last longer but NOTHING works!
When I first met my husband(6 years ago), he was very inexperienced, which I loved. Because he was like an eager, excited puppy, in the bedroom. I figured after a while he would build a tolerance and get better with age and experience.
It’s been 6 years, and he still can’t last long. And I’m not talking a few minutes, I’m talking SECONDS.
Everything i read online says “foreplay” and “take it slow”. Our foreplay is amazing, my husband is incredible at eating me out. But I really just want to get fucked by him… for lack of a better term. 😂
When he does last longer than usual in bed, it’s when he goes slow, if he goes quick and hard, he will cum in a few seconds. But that’s what i want, i want hard. I want aggressive.
This is killing our intimacy, which is hindering other parts of the relationship. It’s getting to the point where my sex drive had taken a huge nose dive, because I don’t see the point in it.
I love my husband, and he’s perfect in literally every other way….but i miss being fucked. If not for pleasure, at least as a stress reducer.
We are very open with communication, but i can tell he’s getting discouraged the more we talk about it. So idk what else to do…
Help!!!!
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