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I failed when I tried... stopped trying and fall into a relationship every time.

Just think about this... if you roll up and a girl seems to be desperate. how do you feel? They can feel it - and the lack of confidence - and react accordingly. I know because I've felt that response.

Yet if I go out and hang out with friends in a comfortable situation? Playing games or say on a trip somewhere... having fun without trying to impress anyone? Just being my normal goofy self? Somehow I impress someone by not trying to impress. If that makes sense lol.

My suggestion? Find a hobby and do it without stressing. Something that involves people your age range that you'll be interested in. Go in without expectations and maybe you'll meet someone... or you'll have fun playing chess/going to the beach/playing in a band/doing d&d/etc.

Asking that many girls out is part of your problem. Women want to date people who like them, not people who like the idea of them. Reflect on what you’re looking for and don’t jump from crush to crush so fast.

Also lots of people don’t have a committed relationship at your age

Please don’t insult the LGBT+ community by thinking they are less desperate and more likely to want to date you. Just don’t date at all.

Keep going. The right woman and the happy ending won't just fall from the sky unfortunately. It will happen, when? Who knows-that's the adventure. Imagine how great you'll feel when the right woman comes along-she's out there, just keep looking.

Good luck

Try just being friends first, no intention of being a couple. As she gets to know you, not threatened about anything romantic, you become good friends. From there she may find you are a keeper.

You may be shooting your shot with women that are taken or in the talking stages of someone they want to be with. Just be friendly even to them, you never know who they know in the same boat as you. They may fix you up.

What are you doing to better yourself and make yourself more interesting?

Your gay comment makes it seem like u are an ass

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