Firm-Host1799 t1_iyf7g1l wrote
Reply to comment by Shibui50 in My sister is neglecting my father’s care and lying to me about it. I live 2,700 miles away. by [deleted]
Yes they have offered that in the home, it’s 1800 dollars extra a month which is included in the price of the facility, but that service still doesn’t offer help with med taking, I’m looking into memory care services and then they’ll help him. Sister is the only one “care-giver” just now realizing she isn’t doing it. We are working with the VA but it will take at least 3 months and they’re going to pay about half of the home care cost. He is going to doctors for all the visits he needs. she just misses his appts all the time because she won’t take him most of the time. I think I need to move back :(
Shibui50 t1_iyf83jr wrote
Trust me. I know how this song goes.
Been there. Done that. Have the t-shirt.
There IS one thing.
Years from now, when you look back and realize you were a stand-up guy and
did the right thing....even if its for someone who didn't want it
or couldn't appreciate it. You won't believe how much easier it is to live with
yourself than if you hadn't. Best of Luck.
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