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throwaway1127197 t1_iyeh9cb wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in My bf went to a strip club without telling me by [deleted]

I have been to one male “strip club” since we’ve dated. But it was for a bachelorette party and the men weren’t naked or anything. I didn’t get a lap dance or anything either.

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wigglebuttbiscuits t1_iyei1km wrote

Did you ask him how he felt about it before you went?

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throwaway1127197 t1_iyei5z3 wrote

No because he had just went to a bachelor party where they had strippers come to their house. So I didn’t think I had to ask.

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wigglebuttbiscuits t1_iyeibe1 wrote

So you weren’t bothered by that party, but you’re bothered by him going to the strip club?

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throwaway1127197 t1_iyeit1v wrote

Well kind of, what was he supposed to do? Not go to the bachelor party? Also, this was like a month into our relationship and he didn’t even tell me about it. I heard through other people that there were strippers there

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wigglebuttbiscuits t1_iyekaup wrote

Yeah, sorry but you have no right to be pissed. You haven’t given him any reason to believe you have a problem with strip clubs or strippers. You’ve gone to them and not said anything when he went in the past. That said, it’s a definite red flag that he was cheating on his girlfriend when he got together with you.

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