first off, since you never had a conversation about it i think you need to do so now.

you do understand that he doesnt have to go to a strip club to cheat, that can happen anyway anywhere. you either trust him or dont.

my husband has gone to a few over the years for bachelor parties, i do not have any issues with it because i trust him. if it isnt often or habit, no big deal for me. i am secure enough to realize this isnt what makes a man cheat.

not all women feel like this i understand that, but you have never discussed it so i think there needs to be some level of forgiveness here.