I think it’s time to hire a PI

Sounds ridiculous right?

Do you trust him? Do you have insecure past trauma? Does he give you reasons to not trust him?

Everyone goes through this kind of situation. Just talk to him. Communication is how people stay together. Talk to him about your needs and what you don’t approve of and reciprocate what he feels isn’t okay.

For example I just saw a post about someone having a gf setting co workers and asking how to get her to stop……