Submitted by [deleted] t3_z93gpr in relationship_advice
goatsnoatsonboats t1_iyeuefx wrote
Talking as a guy I think it's absolutely wrong to "stealth" someone. I also have a very hard time finishing while wearing a condom, it isnt that hard to say "hey I can't cum with a condom on is it ok if I take it off and pull out?" in which the answer has 99% of the time been yes. When the answer is no I just keep the damn thing on.
Doing something sexual to someone without their consent is a huge deal and it's kind of rapey to bait and switch with a condom like that and risking potential STD/pregnancy without approval just shows that he doesn't really consider your feelings and is a breach of trust.
This would be the same as a girl lying about being on birth control which to me would be a deal breaker.
Lexotron t1_iyeuj35 wrote
It's not rapey, it's rape.
goatsnoatsonboats t1_iyevg64 wrote
Just out of curiosity if a girl lies about being on birth control to coax a guy into having unprotected sex is that rape?
Lexotron t1_iyewydw wrote
Not sure about that one. It's definitely fraud.
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