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TallTanandMeh t1_iydogss wrote

So thats a red flag. If hes unwilling to work isnt in school what are the long term prospects? Do you think the relationship could survive you graduating getting a career while he stagnates? Excuses aside if this is someone you see yourself building a life with it should be worrisome that hes not actively building anything even for himself.

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Snoo36463 OP t1_iydqsf4 wrote

yeah ive been thinking about that a lot, our plan is to move in together in 2 years when im done with school but if he keeps doing this i dont think its gonna work out but i really dont want it to come to that lol

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