I think my girlfriend might be mad at me and I am really upset and I dont know what to do

Submitted by Narrow_Performer_211 t3_z8mfwv in relationship_advice

My girlfriend (long distance currently) has refused to talk to me for the past 2 weeks, and she has been getting online, I know that because she keeps logging on, and I can see when she logs on. Every day for the past week ish I have been msging her, asking if she is alright and stuff, but she refuses to answer to anything I say. I dont know if she is mad, if she is just going through some stuff still (this would not make much sense as she said things had gotten better) or if she has found someone else. Can someone please please PLEASE tell me what I should do?

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indigoholly t1_iyc8k9f wrote

Is there anything that happened immediately before she vanished?

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Narrow_Performer_211 OP t1_iycd2ln wrote

Not that I know of, she was having some family issues, but she told me everything was fine now

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ZharethZhen t1_iycbwzq wrote

Have you tried calling her? What happened right before she stopped talking to you?

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Narrow_Performer_211 OP t1_iycd5nk wrote

I have tried calling her twice so far, neither of those times she has responded to me. The last thing that happened between us was a random chat about valorant

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Narrow_Performer_211 OP t1_iyc83qn wrote

Okay, I forgot to add that I am 19, female, and she is 18, also female

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