Jesus Christ man dont be a doormat, leave her and run for your life

Wow. I couldn't imagine choosing to stay with a woman who could lie and hurt you to such a devastating degree. All the best to you.

Seek therapy immediately, your wife has been using you all this time. Always remember that DNA doesn’t make a father the actions of the person makes a good father. You can still be a great dad but divorced from your serial cheating wife

I hope this is a shit post. You're not asking for any advice either.

More rage bait. Get a hobby kid.

Please respect yourself. This woman does not love you. You deserve for yourself as well. She just wants someone who will take care of her kids. Stop being an idiot.

Separate and move on with your life with someone who respects you. Because I will tell you this, once she finds a man who will stick around after the next time she gets knocked up, she is leaving your ass. And this is after draining you emotionally and financially.

Respect yourself. Find a therapist. And then find someone who will love you back.

Oh I’m sorry.

Just move on man, no child support due.

Find a lawyer ASAP !

Prepare to keep forgiving.

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I do hope you are trolling otherwise this is one of the saddest things I've read on here in a while.

Chances are you are stuck paying child support for these kids if you were married at the time, but it wouldn't hurt to talk to a lawyer about your options.

And talk to a therapist, it's one thing if you had an open relationship but to be happy with someone that has so little regard for you and for birth control? How many more strangers' kids are you willing to raise?

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This sounds like a made up twist off of a top post from best reddit updates post today. Nice try, but I'm not buying into it

This is 100% fake.

There was a post on here recently from the perspective of the youngest kid, the story was exactly the same as this until the fight, mom says "how dyou know any of them are yours". In that story the parents made up and forgave each other (there was a lot more drama) but there were some comments saying maybe dad should get a paternity test on the other kids to be sure.

This seems like a red piller's little alternate fiction, especially with the height and dick size comment at the end.

I find it very hard to support your "relationship". You seem to be a glutton for punishment. Why stay with a woman who has cheated on you throughout your entire relationship and tried passing off her multiple AP's children as yours? You have a one-sided love with a serial cheater and liar. No one who truly loves you would do this, much less over and over again. You deserve much better and it's not with this woman.

You’re showing these kids that “love” means being ok with the most extreme form of disrespect. Whether you’re their bio dad or not, you’ve raised them. And you’re showing them, whether they realize it now or not, that abusive, manipulative relationships are ok. I get your hurt but come on man, grow a pair. She doesn’t love you. She’s just really good at manipulating you because she knows you won’t leave her.

Seek counseling, theraphy to help you leave her. I did when I couldn't leave my abusive 5 year relationship in the past. I took it for almost 1 year before I could finally de-attach. He beat the living shit out me and tried to kill me multiple times and would make me feel responsible, that i made him do it, would apologise and tell me he was never gonna do again, buy me things. Take me on vacations, would tell me anything i wanted to hear just to do it again.

When you say sorry and repeat.. sorry looses the value and becomes a weapon.

You can still work out the custody if you wanna see the kids. I understand it is hard for you at the moment. You have loved and cared for them this far.

I hope you leave her. She dont give a flying f**k about u. It must be hard for you to see the actions that say exactly how she feels about you. You should fight for no financial responsibility with the kids. You can get you name removed from their birth certificate even. This way your not financially obligated. Just be present and that should be more than enough. Do this while the kids are young.

Im pretty sure she will do anything to persuade you not to do anything that can fuck her.

This woman is straight up using you and will do anything in her power to emotionally work you as she has and knows you will be a bending backwards for you.