I do hope you are trolling otherwise this is one of the saddest things I've read on here in a while.

Chances are you are stuck paying child support for these kids if you were married at the time, but it wouldn't hurt to talk to a lawyer about your options.

And talk to a therapist, it's one thing if you had an open relationship but to be happy with someone that has so little regard for you and for birth control? How many more strangers' kids are you willing to raise?