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Go. College is far more concrete than a relationship. She might seem perfect right now, but you have no idea if you'll work out long-term. There is also the possibility that you'll come to resent choosing her over your dream school. Choosing a relationship over something as important as college is not a smart choice.

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You go to your dream school. If the relationship lasts, great. If it doesn't, you didn't waste an opportunity for someone you're are barely in a relationship with. You should respect her enough to let her make the same choice.

I'd say my goodbyes to a four month old relationship and know that chances are that only four months in, your relationship is still in the 'shiny and new' phase and won't last forever, while your dream will bring you places, to people, and learning that in the grand scheme of things, will be a better 'payout'.