Submitted by Moneybagk t3_z8vqbr in relationship_advice
So like a month ago, my boyfriend cheated on me (not physically) but messaging girls and I found out. We talked it out and I stayed because he didn’t physically touched anyone. I’ve had issues with how overly nice he is to other women. Which is perfectly fine but not when I’m still trying to get over the whole cheating thing. We went out to the bar the other day and I gave him $2 to put on a song and he went to the music thing and there was a girl next to it and he asked her what song she wanted on! The only reason I’m upset is because he proceeded to tell me the whole night that the song he put on is because I “told him” I loved that song and never in a million years would I like that song and I know the girl too and I know it was a song she would like. He kept telling me he put it on because he thought I told him I loved it. Later on yesterday he admitted he asked her for a song suggestion. It’s bothering me because he used my money to ask another girl what song she wanted on. Please someone tell me what I should do.
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