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ryux999 t1_j2d5mss wrote

are you going to actually end it?

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Ok-fifi-78 t1_j2d5ufl wrote

Good that you have finally.open your eyes. Just block him on everything after you have left so that he cant influence you anymore. Dont worry too much about him , after you left he will start again with other 18yo. That is his modus operandi.

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BloomsLawsPoems t1_j2d5ujg wrote

Wait you're a young woman who dates older guys... Who is surprised by older guys she dates being attracted to young women?

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liyah_castro t1_j2d5x94 wrote

Replying to ryux999 (#1,220,195)

I’ve actually already ended things. He believes there’s a chance we could still be together. Today I’ll be finalizing my decision. If he doesn’t comply this time I may have to block him from contacting me.

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Psi_Boy t1_j2d9l8x wrote

This post reads really bizarrely. First, it's important to point out that he's not "preying" on younger women. As long as they're over 18 they're consenting adults in a consensual relationship with another adult. Second, you set you limit at 30 but you were attracted to this guy and a consenting participant in the relationship. It's so weird that you judge him for that but not yourself in the same way. From what you say, he's a good boyfriend too. So where's the "preying?" It just seems so needless judgemental when you consented to this relationship and haven't stated that you feel like he coerced or forced you into anything but that he somehow "preys" on adult women.

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Catisbackthatsafact t1_j2db5r7 wrote

He's not really a good boyfriend if he refuses to acknowledge your breakup. Like, he knows you want to leave, but he's fine with manipulating you into staying?? He knows better than you what you want? He really is a creep.

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victoraug19 t1_j2dkfhh wrote

There's absolutely nothing weird about being attracted to a 18-24 yo no matter your age. The issue is pursuing a relationship with someone way younger than you, that's the weird part.

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