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What do your porn/masturbation habits look like? Honestly.

Thanks for commenting :) Honestly me and her do semi long distance. We are both in college about 4 hours away we see each other for a weekend every 2 weeks. I have a high sex drive so I can't really go more then 2 days without relief. I do not watch porn as she helps me over the phone with talk and visual help. She has been a great help and understands my needs.

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I advise if you’re having trouble finishing during sex that you cease all self pleasure. There’s something called “death grip” and it’s difficult one to overcome.

Basically the penis prefers the hand to the real thing.

Hmmm That could be true but I don’t have problems when she uses her mouth or other parts of her body to get me off only sex

Take some time off just to be sure. You can always come back to it if that’s not it.

Okay I can test it thank you again