Azerate2016 t1_j2euigc wrote
If you weren't interested in his fantasy, you should have just said so. Playing games to "see how far he goes with it" if you didn't want to participate is silly and manipulative. There's nothing wrong with fantasies/fetishes and talking about it with your spouse is what you should be doing, instead of hiding it. It's just another one of these threads that the conclusion of which is "you shouldn't talk about your sexual fantasies with your spouse" and that sucks. Don't be that way.
Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2ex7hk wrote
It's not the fantasy I have an issue with. Its how far into reality he has bought it. MSsove issue. He may have shared my pictures with his friend. He has discussed with his friend about me having SXX with him, arranged a date for his friend to come... all I this time I work in thr office with this friend and I was clueless. This is no longer a fantasy.
Azerate2016 t1_j2f1q2u wrote
You entertained his fantasy every step of the way so far, or at least pretended to be on the fence about it, which is probably why he has gone so far with it.
The moment you hear about a fetish/fantasy that you're totally against you just say it, and that concludes everything. You went along with his fantasy so he took more steps to make it a reality. Not sure what else you expected.
Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2f1wgu wrote
BecUse he kept telling me its just words and I wanted to see if it was. Whenever he would talk about it he would say I would never in reality which is the only reason I let it slide. When I found out he actually spoke to the guy for 2 years prior about it (probably a few times) is when I decided to let him go on to see if he is lying
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