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[deleted] OP t1_j2czpci wrote

And the porn is the surface level issue - the real issue is that I have to FIND OUT he's doing these things, he has not once come to me about any of these things. It would be different if he admitted to his mistakes vs me having to find out about it.

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triaxisman t1_j2d0mtg wrote

For all of these types of complaints, rather than break up because he’s untrustworthy or discuss with him why he says one thing but does another, your solution is to monitor and object to his behavior getting more and more mad. I don’t see how that’s helping either of you.

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