Submitted by [deleted] t3_zzpkvh in relationship_advice
[deleted] OP t1_j2d0fnx wrote
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It's controlling or dominating to set boundaries and then be upset when those boundaries are violated? Ok. 👍
triaxisman t1_j2d0sb9 wrote
No, it’s controlling or dominating to try to force other people to behave how you want. Boundaries are what you do for yourself, not what you force other people to do for you. For example, here, a healthy boundary is to break up with someone who says one thing but does another. It’s controlling and codependent to stay with someone and try to force them to do what you want when they clearly aren’t going to.
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