Submitted by [deleted] t3_zzpkvh in relationship_advice
Basically my bf (26 M) hides (or tries to anyway) shit from me and I have to find it out thru searching his phone. Him searching his ex on Facebook multiple times and trying to delete it? Check. Him searching porn when I've explicitly expressed I'm uncomfortable with that and he agreed to stop? Check. Him deleting search history, messages, practically everything, when I've expressed explicitly I'm uncomfortable with that? Check. It not only makes me mad that he's doing these things, but the fact that I have to find out about it. He didn't tell me a single one of these times he did any of these, I had to find out. So who tf knows what he's been doing behind my back that I just don't know about. I'm so pissed and don't know what to do. What do I do? How do I confront this/do I confront this?
Willycleaner t1_j2d65ej wrote
Why are you going through his search history on multiple apps? I'd break up with for that, it's as creepy as hell.