Submitted by [deleted] t3_zzq9tt in relationship_advice
MarMar9292 t1_j2d3j06 wrote
Reply to comment by AngryTudor1 in [30F] [33M] Me and my husband are living with his family since 2 years and things are bad, it always felt like him and his family vs me. He says all the issues are my fault and keep insisting his family likes me and treats me well. I disagree, thoughts? by [deleted]
No need to apologize.
I agree that long distance was easier for him. He could go see his friends when he wanted, did not have to deal with things that comes with living with your partner and he could spend as much time with his family as he wanted. But the separation was also difficult for him so we both thought this would actually make things better.
He has also been dealing with depression (from the situation as well) so I didn't blame him for not being as involved.
At first his family said they liked me a lot, but it started getting "bad" because him and I had issues (from the long distance and other things that we were actually working on pretty well) and his family couldnt help but get involve. He also didnt help because he would talk about the issue with them. I dont know if it is a normal things or not, I only have my mom left and we are not close so I dont really do that.
But this and my "requests" kinda started the whole thing. Even thought he still claimed that whole time that they like me just fine.
He just got a job so I hope that will help, he was feeling really bad about not being able to land a job. He is also gonna rent me something but he wont come with me, he said he think we need space. I am not sure if its gonna help or not but at this point I just want to get away from his family.
He mentioned that he doesnt really love me romantically but hope it will come back when the tensions coming from living here go away as well. It is just really frustating to me because I feel like those issues are all coming from his family and he let them do that to us :(
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