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MarMar9292 t1_j2d45th wrote

Reply to comment by BloomsLawsPoems in [30F] [33M] Me and my husband are living with his family since 2 years and things are bad, it always felt like him and his family vs me. He says all the issues are my fault and keep insisting his family likes me and treats me well. I disagree, thoughts? by [deleted]

I mostly wrote that down to avoid things like insults or comments like "you're stupid". I posted a similar post before (with a lot less details) and people said some pretty rough things.

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BloomsLawsPoems t1_j2d4hut wrote

You're trying to make a crappy situation make logical sense when it doesn't. This man does not want to be with you. You might even want to make sure he's not hoping to be with someone else.

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MarMar9292 t1_j2d5005 wrote

I was afraid of that as well, he told me he was too depressed by the situation (me "ruining" the family) to bother looking for something else.

I really tried to explain it as logical as possible because I don't want to influence anyone and want to see what people think. I have been told for 2 years that all is my fault but its like I can see things he doesnt (or his family lies to him and play pretend) so I don't really know where is the truth into all that.

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