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ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dp40f wrote

Reply to comment by GanderGarden in (31F) (21M) Mutual Attraction? Dealing with a Major Crush On My Guy Friend by ldsgirl2022

Yes we are both focusing on career and education, I am just at a further stage than him while he just finished his first internship. When you say it's not a problem, do you mean being in each other's lives or us having feelings for each other ?

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GanderGarden t1_j2dpc6c wrote

In terms of kids, career, settling down, marriage etc ..

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ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dpin3 wrote

Yes we are, weirdly we discussed how important that is because we have a shared faith. We really bonded over that.

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GanderGarden t1_j2dprzp wrote

Can't hurt to try and date then, just be aware that people will give you both looks and judge you both

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ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dq9l3 wrote

Can friends date though? Meaning we can be friends but do couple things like go to dinner, see a movie, do fun activities together, comfort and support each other, and whatever else we feel like doing together. People never gave us weird looks because I look really young and he presents as older. He couldn't believe me when I told him my age and would say I look so pretty, youthful, and his age anytime I reminded him of my life experiences.

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GanderGarden t1_j2dqkd9 wrote

If you're both interested in each other then why not, better to regret doing something then living the rest of your life regretting not doing something .

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ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dr5k7 wrote

Yes we are interested in the very least spending more time together. That is easy. My questions are then what? Why are we sending time together anyway ? A lot of people say that guys use their mission to find a wife, especially if they grew close to a certain lady. That lady would be me, but I always thought that a younger guy would never be good enough.

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GanderGarden t1_j2ds1eg wrote

That's up to You to decide, it's your relationship

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ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dsqv3 wrote

It is easy to just keep friendzoning him but it is hard to ignore his love for me or him flirting.

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