Submitted by ldsgirl2022 t3_zzu7cr in relationship_advice
We met through church while he was in his mission and he ended up dedicating the rest of his mission to seeing me almost daily for lessons or just to spend time with me. He was very supportive emotionally and would make sure to see me a lot. I was going through a rough patch in life and he was 100% there for me - even having late night calls or visits, and he would rush to see me.
It kind of creeped me out at first but eventually I realized I liked seeing him that frequently. He would drop by a lot and get sad if I didn't let him. He would bring me little gifts and he would always be super red in the face when seeing me. He somehow found out my birthday and would always bring up how we have the same birthday - he would say that a lot to me. It was a cute obsession he had with us sharing a birthday. His birthday is the day after mine. We spent a lot of time together. He was really passionate about me for some reason and he made sure we kept in touch. We texted a lot when he went away for college but I didn't realize I liked him until recently.
I am not sure how I never noticed him until now. He always was very sexy to me but now he is even more good looking because he put on a little weight in the form of super muscular arms. He mentioned having a gf while he was in school this year but he knew I had a bf when he would always see me and that didn't stop him from seeing me constantly. I saw that his gf is a heavyset and not conventionally attractive so maybe that is why he never talks about her, doesn't mention seeing her, there aren't any pics of her anywhere, and she doesn't like his pics or comment on his posts. He also is listed as single on his social media. I don't know if he is likes me but he would always say he loves me. He really loved rushing to my side any time something was wrong.
We genuinely enjoyed spending time with each other. He helped me convert but he put in a lot of effort in seeing me frequently and spending as much time with me as he could. He made sure to be very supportive, protective, and encouraging of things I would tell him about my life goals. He also confirmed me on my baptism day. He was single when he met me. We tried seeing each other after his mission but life got in the way. He said no matter what he wants us to meet up to catch up.
I know he is a total virgin but then he would always wear the tightest slacks when seeing me. I want to kiss him and hold his hand. He would always give me such loving hugs and would spend hours with me.I don't know why he is in my life and why he worked so hard to be in it. Now that he is a RM he is focusing on school. He is studying one of the most difficult college majors at one of the BYUs.
Now I wonder why he is in my life, what to do about liking him, and if he likes me back. I had a feeling he really liked seeing me and spending time with me but I wonder if there is anything I can do about it since we are traditionalists and we have a huge age gap. I also wonder if I should even do anything about this.
Thoughts ?
BeaArt78 t1_j2dkicm wrote
He is barely an adult. Gross. Leave him alone.