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Financial_Eye812 t1_j2epfzv wrote

Reply to comment by EvenOrchid6345 in [26M] [21F] My bf isn’t spending new years with by [deleted]

yes that’s the thing he does make me feel special, he always compliments me, makes me feel good, when we are together I feel good but it has been 8 months that’s we haven’t seen eachother and it is always because of me we’ve seen eachotjer cause I’m the one driving to see him

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EvenOrchid6345 t1_j2exh5u wrote

That's what I mean by effort. Compliments are not effort. They are warm air formed into sound. Sex acts are not effort. Driving across the border, making plans, following through, those are efforts. He hasn't seen you in eight months and is making no effort to see you now.

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