Pass.

Google love bombing. This guy is a classic abuser, and you're seeing a bit behind the facade he's put up. The second you peek behind that curtain, he's cheating, he's blaming you, and he's controlling your social media/body with his demands for passwords and sex.

A relationship is built on trust. He doesn't trust you, as shown by demanding access to all your social media, and you shouldn't trust him after he lied and you were confronted with credible evidence of cheating.

This is not a gentleman, this is your projection of what a gentleman looks like onto a 34 yr old with nothing going on. This is someone who will do whatever he can to use you and your body for as long as you will let him, until you figure out this is all manipulation.