Submitted by Ill_Craft3509 t3_zzq452 in relationship_advice
I love my bf with all my heart but I cant stand that hes always late. It ranges from 40 minutes to two hours (I'd say an average of an hour). To be fair, he has ADHD and has medication for that but Im not sure if ADHD causes lateness? His main problem is that he oversleeps, even when he sleeps early he will almost everytime wake up late. I've been extremely mad at him for being late sometimes, but he clearly feels very guilty and sad and I feel like I'm making our relationship stressful for him by always nagging him about not being on time especially since hes not doing it on purpose. I want him to feel at ease in our relationship and not stressed because of my nagging but at the same time this always being late thing is driving me crazy.
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