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icebluefrost t1_j2dve1r wrote

I mean, it doesn’t really sound like he’s actively trying to conceive.

If you’re comfortable with it, maybe you can shift to a “we occasionally have sex without birth control and if it happens it happens” mentality.

But, if that’s not ok for you and you’ve decided that kids are just not in the picture, that’s perfectly ok, but you need to have a discussion about it (and I would bring up the frustrations you have with his lack of trying, but so it in as calm and unemotional a way as possible)

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SunBubble920 t1_j2dwaht wrote

In his defence, it was the first time he didn’t want to try. But I feel like we need to jump on any opportunity regardless if either of us were tired or full from a large meal (his reasons). Especially considering per our last conversation, this was to be the last month we were going to try.

It’s not that I don’t want to try anymore or have that if it happens it happens mentality, it’s I grow more and more concerned the older I get. I’m getting too close to 40 for my comfort. 🫤

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