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You’re not the one that needs to apologize here. You made a mistake. People forget things sometimes, that’s part of life.

He’s left you from being homeless to being homeless with 0 money and no place to put your belongings.

Unfortunately you’re in a tough situation. It’s easy for me to say to break up with him and find a new partner. But you probably feel you need to rely on him and work together since youre both homeless. So I don’t know what you should do, but I do know that you deserve an apology, not him.

thank you so much for your kind words, all I've heard today is to stop being so emotional 💛 thank you

He's crud. If you have family, lean on them for you to get back on your feet. He doesn't deserve you. You're too good for his idiocy.

You aren't in the wrong here, there's no need for you to apologise and you really shouldn't. The fact that he just left you like that, especially without any money is just heartless. You should be more concerned about yourself right now.

You need to get yourself some shelter. Your shelter and well-being are more important than your relationship. I don’t know what got you into this place, but you need to get yourself out.

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You need some shelter and food. This is starting to look like a survival situation. Women's shelter or homeless shelter if you don't have family

Since you know he has the capacity to strand you like this I'd not worry about keeping the relationship. He's not a safe person.

If he continues to ghost you he effectively stole your possessions, I'd talk to police about that.

Find a shelter. Look into local resources.

It's not normal to regularly pee your pants and forget to have a change of clothes. I'm sure you have a lot going on, but these issues should take precedence over whatever relationship you think you're in.

Your homelessness needs to take top priority right now. Find somewhere to stay, find something eat, figure out your next steps.

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Yeah seems like everyone's glossing over the fact that she's regularly pissing herself? That's.. not normal?

She needs to get to a shelter for sure. As for the bf, even if it's irritating that his adult gf regularly pisses herself, he's still awful for abandoning her with 0 resources.

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