Submitted by Away-Income-1540 t3_zz5x36 in relationship_advice
I 23 Male fucked up my relationship with my 25 Female GF and need help fixing it
People of Reddit I need some advice on fixing my relationship I 23M have been with my girlfriend 25F have been together for over a year. This is the first ever true relationship I’ve ever had ones before in the past have only lasted weeks. I attended a university at the beginning of the fall and finished at the beginning of December during the time of school I met a classmate, I had no intention of taking things any further because of my GF neither did my classmate we would text to exchange notes or just talk as friends and BS about class. Not wanting my GF to trip out about it I silenced classmates notifications to keep my GF from tripping out over classmate at the same time her mom is dieing she was in the hospital at the time, well my classmate texts me and ask what my schedule is next semester, I tell her I’m not going back till next fall classmate then proceeds to ask if I can see her next semester I said maybe I can try but can’t guarantee, really had no intentions of seeing her or even talking to her after the semester ends. Anyways my girlfriend looked at my phone saw the messages and then assumed I cheated I’ve told her up and down I never cheated I would always text her when I was at school,leaving school etc. she even had my location but she still thinks I cheated. I love her so much and we are still together but she’s not the same there’s no intimacy and we haven’t had sex in over a month I miss the intimacy and everything my GF gave me she’s honestly the best thing to happen to me, I just don’t know what to do I wanna fix it cause I truly believe she’s the love of my life
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