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Tell him it's time for the stuff to go. If he can't find the time to get it sold, tell him you will drop it off at the nearest donation center, but it needs to be gone within the week. You have given him 7 months to move it. It's time to setup your living room.

Get some storage bins to organize and put away...boxes for donation and garbage bags for throw away. List some stuff to local marketplace and do it together one afternoon when you are both free. What I did with my boyfriends stuff is I just did it myself because he wouldn't do it. I showed him item by item and he told me... keep, donate, throw out. It was better me do it that way than spend a year looking at it.

Update: he punched a hole in the wall when I told him I need progress on donating and selling items, I feel nauseous. He said “you don’t know what kind of day I’ve had” is there a job high stress enough to justify that level of upset…