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ThrowRapotatonator OP t1_j2cagx5 wrote

Reply to comment by AffectionateWheel386 in [21F][21M][20F] My boyfriend's ex contacted him saying he has a son by ThrowRapotatonator

He's not sure whether or not he wants to meet his ex. Also, I have a very pessimistic way of thinking, I just want to have options prepared just in case it is his.

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nuttynutdude t1_j2cf5uw wrote

He needs that test regardless of whether he wants to be a parent. If he doesn’t he’s financially stuck with that kid for 18 years regardless of whether it’s his.

And it’s not pessimistic to reconsider your options in this scenario. If you don’t want to be with a parent, that’s fully within your rights and in my opinion smart considering you’re 21. At bear minimum you should be taking a step back and reevaluating the situation

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AffectionateWheel386 t1_j2cbmk4 wrote

He doesn’t need to do anything right now. I feel like she’s trying to manipulate him a little bit. I’ve known women they got pregnant by Guy is the didn’t show up properly and they didn’t follow him around and track them.

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