Prislv223 t1_j2e0soq wrote on December 31, 2022 at 3:50 PM

Dump him and be best friends with her.

ThrowRAChancez OP t1_j2e1wi9 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 3:58 PM

I wanted to, but at this point, life moves on. I won't reject her if she reaches out to me though. I'd let that lady drag me around anywhere. I get why he likes her so much, I like her a lot, but he could do better at just helping me be more comfortable.

Prislv223 t1_j2eimub wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:52 PM

Idk if he’s going to get better about being better towards you. I know it’s not that other girl’s fault but honestly you could reach out and talk to her about it. Maybe you guys could have “a come to Jesus meeting” about it.

KindheartednessNo167 t1_j2fe8tb wrote on December 31, 2022 at 9:34 PM

This.

If she is a lesbian, she might talk highly of you and he might get jealous. It sounds like she sees through his B.S.

I hope you find the strength within yourself to leave him. It's sad that his friend values you more than he does.