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ThrowRAChancez OP t1_j2e1kqj wrote

Reply to comment by southcoastal in [27f][29m] My bf has a female friend that he has stopped me from hanging out with over the 8 years we've been together. by ThrowRAChancez

...yeah. was dumb enough to believe the whole "I'm over her" episode. Chose to take him at his word instead of trusting my gut. Want to believe that he has chosen me after 8 years, but part of me knows if she called right now and asked him to drop me, it would probably only take him an hour or less to get through.

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Gnork t1_j2eiebu wrote

You should go. He's not a prize worth winning.

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ThrowRAChancez OP t1_j2eluan wrote

Currently, not at all, and it's very sad considering he has kids. It's really like im their dad, and I love them a lot so that's tough enough. He refuses to get along with the mother of his children, and he broke his phone a year ago, so I've been middle manning everything for a year. I know he should eventually get better, but when will that be? He's concerned with having fun right now so that could be forever. I keep seeing the good in him but he keeps it from me.

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GrouchyYoung t1_j2es83v wrote

So he’s aggressive and violent in addition to being in love with someone else. Get out.

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Gnork t1_j2f68ji wrote

> I know he should eventually get better, but when will that be?

Oof, who told you that? He's a shit partner, that's just who he is. No amount of hoping, or being the bestest girlfriend ever, or waiting patiently for him to come around will make him see you. Get gone!

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2SadSlime t1_j2fr99d wrote

Wait so he hasn’t had a cellphone in a year?! Please leave omg. Your life will be so much better

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