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Present-Ad-3819 t1_j2e9tns wrote

8 years and he still treats you like a second option to a friend that has rejected him that you know of??? Leave him

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ThrowRAChancez OP t1_j2ee4dc wrote

Yeah, I know I sound pretty dumb. Kids that I love were involved and I think at the time I went autopilot I had decided to stick it out for them. He just wasn't doing as well as he should. I know it's not my burden. They're just special to me. There's like 3 years of memories missing that I should have and it's terrifying. I don't want that happening again.

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f1newhatever t1_j2fuo12 wrote

Literally none of that is a reason to stay in this godawful relationship. What is the right thing for you?

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