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MissMarionMac t1_j2bs40r wrote

Reply to comment by Throwraes in (30-F)(40-M). I feel like my boyfriend speaks to me in a childish and selfish way. But I don’t know how to respond to explain to him how much is upsets me. by Throwraes

Sounds like you're dealing with some of the sunk-cost fallacy--the idea that you've invested so much time and energy into something that you can't back out now.

You can.

(And honestly, take that holiday by yourself if you want to. Just for a change of scene and to explore on your own.)

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Throwraes OP t1_j2bt21o wrote

You’re right.

Thank you, I may just do that. I’m just so used to doing everything with him. But I need to learn to be independent again and find my confidence. I really appreciate your time and help.

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