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k-Unsolicited t1_j2f3nko wrote

You sound like an introvert lol

But I'd talk to your gf, tell her about your time concerns with work. And maybe even propose an alternative that would involve her being able to drink.

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ishouldvoicemario OP t1_j2f4580 wrote

I definitely am lol. I love socializing and getting to see my friends. They’re pretty much the only “family” I have out here. But I often agree to attend events, then come the day of, I don’t feel like going through with it. I just feel bad that this might affect my girlfriend’s night.

I’ll try to think of a fun alternative and propose that to her.

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k-Unsolicited t1_j2f4l1n wrote

You sound like my best friend 😂😂 I get it lol. You make the plan in advanced and the day of you're like "why did I do that". Gotta make day of plans(no time to cancel) with yall 😂😂

Yeah, just come up with something that she'd like to do. It's better than "I'm not going but also don't know what we could do instead".

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