ishouldvoicemario OP t1_j2f4580 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 8:20 PM

Reply to comment by k-Unsolicited in [28M][25F] How do I tell my girlfriend I don’t want to go to a party tonight? by ishouldvoicemario

I definitely am lol. I love socializing and getting to see my friends. They’re pretty much the only “family” I have out here. But I often agree to attend events, then come the day of, I don’t feel like going through with it. I just feel bad that this might affect my girlfriend’s night.

I’ll try to think of a fun alternative and propose that to her.

k-Unsolicited t1_j2f4l1n wrote on December 31, 2022 at 8:23 PM

You sound like my best friend 😂😂 I get it lol. You make the plan in advanced and the day of you're like "why did I do that". Gotta make day of plans(no time to cancel) with yall 😂😂

Yeah, just come up with something that she'd like to do. It's better than "I'm not going but also don't know what we could do instead".