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ishouldvoicemario OP t1_j2fq8m3 wrote

Reply to comment by J0hanNmonster in [28M][25F] How do I tell my girlfriend I don’t want to go to a party tonight? by ishouldvoicemario

That seems obvious. I’m wondering if there’s any better ways to do it without risking too much disappointment.

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J0hanNmonster t1_j2fu3wm wrote

I don't think the disappointment is avoidable if she is looking forward to it.

When we are in the same situation as you, we just say it to each other. Of course sometimes there is a disappointment, that's just natural, but we are not mad at each other or anything like that because we love and care about one another.

You should know your gf best so you should also know best how to phrase it. If she cares about you and how you feel, then there shouldn't be big issue.

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