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UnsightlyFuzz t1_j28nuyu wrote

If the genders were reversed, no one would hesitate to tell you to leave the relationship, for your own safety. I think it doesn't matter what the genders are. I agree with your family, don't stick around for that. It's impossible to know what's going on with your gf, but it doesn't really matter. Leave, anyway.

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NickMullensMustache t1_j29aa11 wrote

No, she is not a good woman. She is a violent monster. This is going to escalate and she is going to try to kill you. That is what abusers do.

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dwells2301 t1_j29bzze wrote

Dude. No.

>She’s still a good woman

No she is not. Good women don't throw things at others, especially ones they supposedly love. Break up, take time to heal and for goodness sake, take your time to get to know someone before moving in together.

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