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I'm sorry he outed you. It's super common for couples to tell eachother everything. Not that it's right but it is common. It's also common for couples to spend all their time together. Especially in the beginning. Try not to take it personally. It's not about you. As long as you're not too angry I'm certain he will still make an effort to be your friend but your friendship will be different.

I do not deal with that plans cancelling stuff a lot of times. Especially if there is no reason like an emergency or accident but the person just rather wants to spend time with someone else. I also will not argue like crazy if this happens to often, I will just stop making plans with these people or make plans that are not unconvenient to me if they are cancelled (like close where I live, have a Plan B for the day, not much planning needed, etc.). People are growing apart and that is just as it is when you get older.