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Malalang t1_j2dpyep wrote

Go to the proctologist, get your anal tear checked out. Give him the bill. Show him the reality of the consequences of his unreasonable fantasy.

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southcoastal t1_j2doqkk wrote

Peg him and see how he likes being ripped up until he bleeds.

But seriously. He should have prepared properly. You can’t suddenly ram an erect dick into a small hole without proper preparation. Youve probably got a fissure now which will keep flaring up.

Do not let him do this if you don’t want to. You’ve tried it and didn’t like it. He has no right to force you.

If he tries any further coercion be it verbal or physical then that is sexual assault and does not make him a “big goofball”, it makes him a big cunt.

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DisastrousStep8383 t1_j2dss40 wrote

Thank you for this. I had never thought of it like this and he has never sexually assaulted me, but I think this puts it into perspective. Thank you

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NoSweat_PrinceAndrew t1_j2dor13 wrote

Your fiance sounds like he needs to pull his head out of his ass and respect your boundaries.

Sex doesn't need to have an anal aspect to be fulfilling. If it's something he's so hell bend on I would suggest for him to let you have a go on him with a strap on and then you'll reconsider things

Edit: your body, your rules - don't ever forget that

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[deleted] OP t1_j2eofbh wrote

“He’s a big goofball and I love him. But he doesn’t respect me sexually and constantly pushes boundaries” in sorry but I wouldn’t call someone like that a lovable goofball. His BLATANT disregard for your clearly expressed boundary is pitiful. He’s a shit person

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