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WildlyUninteresting t1_j2cwm8h wrote

Reply to comment by Cool_Story_Bro__ in [23M] [57M] My father refuses to accept I don't want a relationship with him. How do I end it for good? by BringbackDreamBars

Hence the original comments.

It may not be the wise decision if this issue could be resolved.

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Cool_Story_Bro__ t1_j2cwtoi wrote

Are you just trolling?

Your original comment was “you both handled it poorly,” and the gist of “get over it and just talk to him.”

So you’re really blaming him for his dad’s fault when he was 11 and now.

Your an AH. I’m not gonna reply anymore.

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WildlyUninteresting t1_j2cx04r wrote

How else do they fix it?

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BringbackDreamBars OP t1_j2d9jo3 wrote

Im not interested in fixing this, as far as I´m concerned. We are done for the forseeable future.

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gurlwithdragontat2 t1_j2dv2zz wrote

They don’t.

OP does not want to.

There is nothing to fix.

The father can want a relationship all he wants. I want an infinite bank account. We all want things.

BUT I cannot go out and demand others money, or decided that all money on earth is mine. I can want that, but I would have to trample others to get it. Now people could decided to give me all their money, and that would be sweet! But unreasonable, because I didn’t earn it.

I’m the dad. The relationship with the son is the money. His father is not entitled to a relationship with him.

Just by virtue of ej*culating in other person once X number of years ago, does not entitle you to the time, energy, or relationship with that person once they reach adulthood. If your child decides they don’t want to have a relationship with you, NO MATTER THE LEVEL OF EVOLVEMENT GROWING UP OR HOW GOOD/BAD YOU THINK YOU WERE AS A PARENT ;then they just don’t, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do about that.

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