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shygrl__ t1_j2agsjq wrote

What I'm most stuck on is why she chooses to do this lying next to you in the bed where the prospect of getting caught is high. Like why not just go to the bathroom? And then when getting caught, she denies and denies. I do think she is definitely feeling some shame around what she's doing, but again why do it with you literally right there?

I think it would be good to have a serious discussion with her about the future of your trust in her if she continues to lie to you. The way the post reads sounds like this is something she just recently started doing as of 6 months ago, so maybe there is a connection there with something else? Has she started new medications that make her libido irregular, or something of the sort?

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Ok-Preparation-2307 t1_j2b0xoj wrote

Some people get off on the thought of being caught. It's an actual kink.

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Weak_Seesaw_7838 t1_j2b5elm wrote

100% that’s what it is. She needs that excitement to get off. If she admits it to him it will ruin the fantasy. She will not stop this. It could be a hot role play for them adding some kink play for her getting caught. They need to get on the same page.

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