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crazzymomof5boyzz t1_j2dvwms wrote

She needs therapy asap. She's not okay! She's doing to some poor woman what was done to her. She's gonna get caught, she's gonna get fired, and depending on how small the network is for her profession, she's gonna have a bad rep as a home wrecker, which will make it seriously hard for her to find another job.

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[deleted] OP t1_j2e0uex wrote

I know. I’ve told her all this and she keeps saying they mustn’t get caught. Even if she was an uncaring sociopath, which she’s not, it’s so unlike her to take these massive risks. She’s normally so strategic.

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crazzymomof5boyzz t1_j2e1ylq wrote

Her ex said thought he wouldn't get caught either. Eventually, she's gonna get busted and feel so ashamed of herself. I don't think she's really thinking of how bad this will be for her personally. His wife will probably go scorched earth, and from other similar situations I've seen in the past, will make it her life's mission to destroy your friend. It's one thing when the other woman didn't know he's married. It's a whole other thing when she does. She's risking her career, personal reputation, and very possibly, her families respect for some scandal d*ck. She's clearly lost her mind and needs to get in therapy today!

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[deleted] OP t1_j2e3qes wrote

I can’t disagree with you and all that is why I’m so worried. And I hadn’t said in my post but her parents would be horrified by this. I don’t know about therapy though or how to access it. I don’t think it’s really that common here (UK). I might be wrong and will try and look but I can’t drag her there.

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