[19M][18F] We've been dating for a month and today she told me she went on a date with another guy

Submitted by ThrowRA73759 t3_zz28x9 in relationship_advice

I met her a month ago. We clicked very fast, and she soon told me how she wanted me to be only hers, and I was okay with being exclusive because I really like her too. She had been feeling off for a few days, I asked her and she told me she wasn't feeling too good, so I gave her some space thinking she needed it, and today she told me that she had dated a guy to see if other guys apart from me would see her attractive. This shocked me a lot and I don't know how to feel or what should I do about it. She told me that her friend kinda forced her to date this guy because she needed to get out more, it seems this friend doesn't know about me yet. She came back saying that she was sorry and that it wasn't worth it and it was a mistake, but I don't know whether to trust her or not.

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VanMan32 t1_j28z6up wrote

> She told me that her friend kinda forced her to date this guy because she needed to get out more

Then I guess she’s not the one at fault here /s.

Nah that’s a bullshit excuse. I understand wanting validation, but going on a date to get it?

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hshsgdve t1_j2982ob wrote

Bro. Stop.

Her friend didn’t force her to do anything.

Her friend was taking her lead.

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Ratatoski t1_j2ab4df wrote

So you've been dating for a month, she asked you to be exclusive yet she went on a date with another guy. I can't really see that as anything else than cheating. I'd cut my losses since it's only a month in.

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Breakingupwithfatty t1_j2abl7u wrote

So already cheating a month in....your relationship sounds promising😑

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