Submitted by ThrowRA73759 t3_zz28x9 in relationship_advice
I met her a month ago. We clicked very fast, and she soon told me how she wanted me to be only hers, and I was okay with being exclusive because I really like her too. She had been feeling off for a few days, I asked her and she told me she wasn't feeling too good, so I gave her some space thinking she needed it, and today she told me that she had dated a guy to see if other guys apart from me would see her attractive. This shocked me a lot and I don't know how to feel or what should I do about it. She told me that her friend kinda forced her to date this guy because she needed to get out more, it seems this friend doesn't know about me yet. She came back saying that she was sorry and that it wasn't worth it and it was a mistake, but I don't know whether to trust her or not.
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