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theoway1945 OP t1_j2bogcr wrote

Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in [25f][36m] can I save my marriage? by theoway1945

I wish I could have seen that red flag all those years ago. Even at the age of 25 I look at 19 year olds as being kids, it's actually gross that he even tried it! I just wish I could have seen it. Thank you so much for your advice.

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TattooPuddle t1_j2boyhp wrote

No worries. I've been in a similar situation so I get how easy it is to get sucked into it.

I wish you the best. Don't hesitate to reach out to your friends and family. I'd imagine they want you to be safe and happy.

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theoway1945 OP t1_j2bp70b wrote

Thanks so much. I think that's going to be hard. I have never given any indication to anyone that we have any problems. I've been sitting silently in this for a long time. I am embarrassed. I guess that being happy eventually is worth being embarrassed for a while

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TattooPuddle t1_j2bpij5 wrote

There's nothing to be embarrassed about. If anyone should be embarrassed, it's your shitty ex.

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